Dating in Thailand can be hazardous! I wanted to share with you a few experiences which should be able to help you.
1) Don’t go for standard membership.
Unless you are a female trying to find a male, then standard membership is not worth your time. I have spent hours on sites where you can only send 1 message every 10 minutes or only send messages to girls who have Gold or Platinum membership levels. It does not look good if you are not even able to spend a few Baht a month on paying for your membership. I know this sounds like a sales pitch, but its true, once I had paid for my membership, then the messages began to flood in. If you don’t believe me, then just try for one month and see the difference.
2) Don’t be scared if the girl is too far away from you.
Distance is no object for Thai girls. They will be more than happy to speak to you even if you are at the other side of the world. For them, it is very glamorous to have a foreign boyfriend and a few thousand miles is not going to make any difference if they think you are a good man. Obviously that love and admiration is going to shine through when you finally get to meet them, but in the meantime, you can form a special bond before this time comes.
3) Don’t think she is too good for you
In Thailand, you can get amazingly beautiful women that are a 9 or a 10 in your home country. I remember one time when I just joined one dating site, I did not really understand how to use it and ended up on the ‘most popular’ section and got chatting to a girl who was online. Now these girls on most popular are truly stunning, and this one was either number 1 or number 2 ‘most popular’. I could not believe my luck, perhaps it was because I was a little drunk, but I asked for her number and she gave it me straight away. I called her and told her I would like to meet her, and within 2 weeks she had been over to stay at my apartment for the night! As luck would have it, she and her family were considering buying a house in the same area I was living in and she decided to come and see me at the same time – the icing on the cake was that it was my birthday the same day she stayed over – what a present!