Well, let me start by saying its not easy! This will be great news to a lot of people who have trouble getting a partner in their home country, and I expect you are not from Thailand if you are reading this as its all written in English and not Thai. OK since I have been here, over the last 3 years, I must have met over 100 girls and only a very small handful have not been romantically interested in me.
Its difficult to get rid of them once you have had sex with them, so be warned! Once to cross this barrier, then they think that that have some kind of hold on you. They will always be upping the steaks as well – say for example you start seeing a girl and she comes over once a week and stays over. Sooner or later, she is going to find a way to spend an extra night with you, then 2 extra nights and then a week! You will be trapped with her and the only way you are going to get away from her is to move! change your phone number and never let her know where you are going!!!
Take tonight for example. I have invited a girl over, just for a couple of hours or so, but this is not enough, she has already been asking me on the phone if she can stay over – and also can she bring her friends and let them sleep in my spare rooms! Well, its hard for me to say no… What you mean 3 girl rather than 1? Sure, I think that will be possible – I am hoping for an interesting night. She has already asked if I want to drink some beers – but I decided I didn’t want to, sounds like I am in enough trouble as it is – so quickly just fire off this blog post before they all arrive.
But you really do have to keep them at arms length – I know if I keep on inviting her round each night, she will try and stay for extended periods of time, perhaps calling me every night asking if she can come over – I hate this… I want it all on my terms, to call her when I want her, rather than when she wants me (which will be every night). So, you have to put your foot down and decide if you want to take the relationship further or just go for it and suffer the consequences. Some might say its a good problem to have, but I disagree, sometimes you can end up feeling trapped and almost feel like you are married and who wants that in Thailand right? Not me.
So to you all thinking about coming out here, please make decisions you are going to stick to, otherwise, you could end up in a relationship you don’t really want. Remember, this is not your country and you dont have as many rights as you think you do, you could quite easily end up in hot water and Thailand is the last place that you want that to happen.