If you want to find a good Thai girl, then the best place to look is online. It can be a mine field if you are trying to find a good girl in the bar scene. OK, there are many beautiful girls who work in the bars, but I for one would not consider dating or marrying a girl who had worked in a bar. Would you want to date a girl like this in your home country? I didn’t think so, so what makes people want to date a girl from a bar when they are in Thailand?
I think a lot of of the time, dating a girl from a bar is for convenience. They see the girl in the bar as a girl who can show them affection straight away and believe it is for real. These girls are well trained in how to get a customer to fall in love with them. If you are on a 2 week holiday, then they will be able to smell this a mile off and know how to get you to fall for them quicker than you can imagine.
I would suggest actaully looking outside of the bar area for your good Thai girl. You can find literally thousands of girls these days on the internet. A lot of them can be younger and more attractive than any girl you could hope to meet in your home country.
Tips for finding a good girl.
1) Does she speak perfect English?
A lot of people would see this as a positive, but sometimes, it can be a negative. Unless she has a great job and has been university educated to a high standard, then if her English is very good, then she may have had a lot of exposure to western men. If she is can speak to you with perfect English, then ask her how she speaks it so well. Ask her ‘Wow, you speak very good English, you must have an English boyfriend right’? This is a great question as it is actually a compliment and a great information gathering question at the same time. Its hard to make her feel offended when you are complementing her at the same time!
2) Is she online all the time?
If you spot her online more often than not, then she may have a few different men that she is trying to attract the attention of. It may not be a good sign if she is always there online on the dating site. If she sometimes takes a while to reply even when she is clearly online, then this is a sure sign that she has many other guy who she is trying to meet.
There are many other pit falls to meeting the wrong girl online, but a lot of these you need to find out for yourself.